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When you’re just starting to date someone, everything about them is a captivating mystery. But as years pass in a relationship, that sense of mystery can fade. Asking each other naughty questions can reignite the excitement, whether you’re discovering new desires or rediscovering old ones.Â
According to sex expert Zoë Ligon, it’s about continuously getting to know your partner and yourself. Even in long-term relationships, there’s always something new to uncover.
70 Sexual Questions to Ask Your Partner Before Sex
1. “What does amazing sex mean to you?”
2.”If you could choose any location in the world for sex, where would it be?”
3. “If you could have sex with any celebrity, who would it be and why?”
4. “What’s one of your favourite sexual fantasies?”
5. “What kind of porn are you into right now?”
6. “Describe how you feel and sound when sex feels good for you.”
7. “What non-sexual thing turns you on?”
8. “Do you have any sexual fetishes?”
9. “What games did you enjoy playing as a child?”
10. “What do you think about during masturbation?”
11. “What would be your ideal erotic vacation?”
12. “Is there a song that gets you in the mood?”
13. “Have you ever been caught having sex before? Tell me about it.”
14. “Is there something you’ve always wanted to try in bed but thought I wouldn’t like?”
15. “Is there an erotic movie scene that turns you on?”
16. “What’s the wildest place you’ve ever hooked up?”
17. “Do certain types of clothing turn you on?”
18.”Would you like to try being loud during sex?”
19.”Would you like to try being quiet during sex?”
20.”Can we dedicate a night to your pleasure?”
21. “Want to experiment with food as foreplay?”
22. “Have you ever fantasized about someone else while having sex with me?”
23. “What colour underwear would you like me to wear later?”
24. “Do you prefer music or silence during sex?”
25. “How many sexual partners have you had?”
26. “Do you remember your best orgasm?”
27. “Are you interested in trying spanking?”
28. “Where do you like to be kissed the most?”
29. “Do you prefer dirty texts or dirty talk in person?”
30. “Where would you like me to touch you?”
31. “What’s your favourite sexual position?”
32. “How do you feel about anal play?”
33.”Have you ever considered trying tantric sex?”
34. “Have you ever been caught masturbating?”
35. “What’s your favourite type of foreplay?”
36. “What’s the most times you’ve had sex in a single day?”
37. “Can you recall the last time you got turned on in public?”
38. “Do you prefer being in control or being dominated?”
39. “Plane or train for sex?”
40.”Have you ever sent or received a nude?”
41. “Car sex or shower sex?”
42. “What do you want to do when we’re alone together?”
43. “What do you want more of in our sex life?”
44. “Are you interested in having a threesome?”
45. “Where’s the most unusual place you’d like to have sex with me?”
46. “Is there a spot in our home you’d like to try having sex?”
47. “What time of day do you prefer to have sex?”
48.“What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s happened during sex?”
49.”Can we try a new sex position tonight?”
50. “What do you want me to wear to bed?”
51. “Where and how can I touch you to turn you on?”
52. “Do you want to use a vibrator on me?”
53. “Have I ever turned you on in public?”
54. “What could I say or text to turn you on immediately?”
55. “Would you like to play never-have-I-ever?”
56. “Do you have a favourite sexual memory of us?”
57. “Can we shop for sex toys together?”
58. “Do you want to make a sex tape?”
59. “Can I try to make you orgasm without using my hands?”
60. “Do you prefer giving or receiving?”
61.”I’m wearing vibrating panties—want control of the remote?”
62. “Have you ever had a hot dream about me?”
63. “How do you feel about skinny-dipping?”
64. “Do you enjoy rough sex?”
65. “Can I read you a sexy story?”
66.”How do you feel about partner-swapping?”
67. “What’s your favourite part of my body?”
68. “Would you like to try a massage candle?”
69. “What’s the best thing about our sex life?”
70. “Can I pull your hair?”
Takeaway
In a relationship, it’s natural for the excitement to fade over time. But asking naughty questions can bring back that spark, whether you’re discovering new desires or rediscovering old ones.Â
It’s all about continuously getting to know your partner and yourself, even in long-term relationships. So, don’t be afraid to ask these questions and keep the passion alive!
