Assessing Your Relationship: Are You with a Victim?

How often do you communicate openly with your partner about your feelings and concerns?

Regularly, we make it a point to discuss our emotions and concerns openly

Sometimes, when it feels necessary or when an issue arises

Rarely, I tend to keep my feelings to myself unless it's absolutely necessary

Almost never, I avoid discussing my feelings as much as possible

Correct!

Wrong!

When conflicts arise in your relationship, how do you typically handle them?

We communicate calmly and try to find a resolution together

We may argue but always make an effort to listen to each other's perspective

I tend to avoid conflicts or sweep them under the rug

I often feel overwhelmed and shut down during conflicts

Correct!

Wrong!

How do you respond when your partner achieves something significant, like a promotion or personal milestone?

I celebrate their success and express genuine happiness for them

I acknowledge their achievement, but it may not always be my top priority

I may feel jealous or insecure about their success

I find it hard to be genuinely happy for them and may even downplay their achievements

Correct!

Wrong!

How do you handle disagreements in your relationship?

We discuss our differences calmly and try to find a compromise

We may have heated arguments, but we always aim to find a resolution

I tend to give in to avoid conflict, even if it means suppressing my own needs

I often feel like the victim in disagreements and struggle to see my partner's perspective

Correct!

Wrong!

How do you prioritize spending quality time with your partner?

It's important to me, and I make an effort to plan activities together regularly

We spend time together when our schedules align, but it's not always consistent

I often prioritize other commitments over spending time with my partner

I struggle to make time for my partner, and our relationship may feel neglected as a result

Correct!

Wrong!

How do you react when your partner expresses a need for emotional support?

I listen attentively and offer my support however I can

I try to be supportive, but I may not always know the best way to help

I may feel burdened or overwhelmed by their emotions

I struggle to provide the support they need and may feel resentful of their needs

Correct!

Wrong!

How do you handle conflicts between your partner and your friends or family?

I try to mediate and find a resolution that respects both sides

I listen to both parties and offer support where I can, but I don't always intervene

I may feel torn between loyalty to my partner and my friends/family

I often feel like the victim caught between my partner and others, leading to stress and tension

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